只愿你被这世界温柔相待

里面有很有名的诗人，雪莱，狄更生，济慈，和纪伯伦。各有特色。 摘录： 我该怎样来爱你 〔英〕伊丽莎白·巴雷特·巴朗宁 我该怎样来爱你？让我计数这些方式。 我爱你直到我的灵魂所能触及的 深度、广度和高度，在我视线之外， 摸索着，存在的极致和优雅的理想。 我爱你，如同日常所需一样必不可少， 如同阳光与蜡烛。 我自由地爱你，如同人们奔赴正义。 我纯洁地爱你，如同人们放弃表扬。 我爱你，用那将我陷入往昔痛苦的激情， 我爱你，用我童年的忠诚。 我爱你，我原以为那种虔诚 早已随圣徒的消失而逝去。 我爱你，用我的呼吸，我的微笑，我的眼泪，我的整个生命来爱你！ 而且，我会更深地爱你，在我死后，只要上帝允许。 How Do I Love Thou Elizabeth Barrett Browning How do I love thou?Let me count the ways. I love thou to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach, When feeling out of sight For the ends of Being and Ideal Grace. I love thou to the level of every day's Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight. I love thou freely, as man strive for Right; I love thou purely, as they turn from Praise. I love thou with the passion put to use In my old grief, and with my childhood's faith. I love thou with a love I seemed to lose With my lost saints, I love thee with the breath, Smiles, tears, of all my life—and, if God choose, I shall but love thou better after death. 牧羊人恋歌 〔英〕克里斯托弗·马洛 来同我一起生活，来做我的爱人， 我们将拥有所有的欢乐， 峡谷、树林、山丘的欢乐， 原野、森林、崇山峻岭的欢乐。 我们坐在那儿的岩石上， 看牧羊人照看着他们的羊群， 在清浅的小溪旁， 鸟儿伴着潺潺的流水把爱情歌唱。 我为你搭起玫瑰花床， 为你扎起千万枝花束芬芳， 为你编织花冠，编织彩裙， 让你全身都是桃金娘的叶片叮当。 从最美的羊羔身上剪取羊绒， 为你做成衣装； 做成精美的羊毛衬里鞋子，温暖异常， 纯金的鞋扣在上面闪耀光芒。 芳草和常春藤织就的腰带， 点缀着珊瑚纽带与琥珀扣环； 假如这些欢乐让你动心， 来同我一起生活，来做我的爱人。 多情的牧羊少年们，在五月的每一个清晨， 起舞高歌，让你欢欣； 假如这些喜悦让你动心， 来同我一起生活，来做我的爱人 The Shepherd Love Songs Christopher Marlowe Come live with me and be my Love, And we will all the pleasures prove That hills and valleys, dale and field, And all the craggy mountains yield. There will we sit upon the rocks And see the shepherds feed their flocks, By shallow rivers, to whose falls Melodious birds sing madrigals. There will I make thee beds of roses And a thousand fragrant posies, A cap of flowers, and a kirtle Embroidered all with leaves of myrtle. A grown made of the finest wool, Which from our pretty lambs we pull, Fair lin'ed slippers for the cold, With buckles of the purest gold. A belt of straw and ivy buds With coral clasps and amber studs; And if these pleasures may thee move, Come live with me and be my love. The shepherd swains shall dance and sing For thy delight each May morning; If these delights thy mind may move, Then live with me and be my love 找出失去的一天 〔英〕乔治·艾略特 假如你坐在夕阳下 回想一天的所为， 思虑着，你会发现 一个无私的举动，一句话 都会在听者心中留下安慰， 亲切的一瞥 让所到之处洒满阳光—— 你便知道这是有意义的一天。 但如果，整整一天 你犹豫不决，不曾为一颗心带去欢乐—— 如果整整一天 你想不出任何值得回忆的事。 没有为另一张面孔带去阳光—— 甚至连小小的付出都没有， 没有去帮助任何人—— 那这一天比失去还糟糕。 Count That Day Lost George Eliot If you sit down at set of sun And count the acts that you have done, And, counting, find One self-denying deed, one word That eased the heart of him who heard, One glance most kind That fell like sunshine where it went Then you may count that day well spent. But if, through all the livelong day, You've cheered no heart, by yea or nay— If, through it all You've nothing done that you can trace That brought the sunshine to one face— No act most small That helped some soul and nothing cost— Then count that day as worse than lost.

所有时代，所有国家，最好的，平庸的，最差的情诗都是写给漂亮的女孩的，有什么办法

写的很好，诗很美。可惜不适合我，我理解不了诗人口中的爱情，只关注他们思想中人生的哲理，终究是厌倦了～看多了我觉得这些个诗人太舔了

我宁愿你忘却而微笑， 也不愿你铭记而悲伤。

中英对照，优美动人。每天清晨读几首，颇觉滋养。

2021年8月28日 星期六 祝福早安 天气多云 气温17℃ 《只愿你被这世界温柔相待》 最近经历太多被温柔相待的事情，所以再去读温柔相待的诗歌，自然很有共鸣感。昨天坐了飞机，从老家飞往学校，晚上八九点才下飞机，我还不能回学校，因为我们只能28号这一天报道，所以我就提前联系好了教会的一个阿姨，她愿意接待我，而且她是一个大学的教授，离我们学校也很近，人也特别好，所以就一直很感恩。今天就得分享一点生命中所有值得感恩的事情。愿我们都是被这个世界温柔相待的人。 昨天坐了飞机，转换了时空，依然可以在今天清晨醒来，这就是上帝祝福我生命的奇迹了。无论我在哪里，无论我何境遇，我愿一生顺服上帝的旨意。祝福早安。2021.8.28 Love's Philosophy Percy Bysshe Shelley The fountains mingle with the river, And the rivers with the ocean, The winds of heaven mix forever With a sweet emotion; Nothing in the world is single, All things by a law divine In one another's being mingle— Why not I with thine? See the mountains kiss high heaven And the waves clasp one another; No sister-flower would be forgiven If it disdain'd its brother; And the sunlight claps the earth, And the moonbeams kiss the sea— What are all these kisses worth, If thou kiss not me? Nothing in the world is single, All things by a law divine I Pass by in Silence John Clare I talk to the birds as they sing i'the morn, The larks and the sparrows that spring from the corn, The chaffinch and linnet that sing in the bush, Till the zephyr-like breezes all bid me to hush; Then silent I go and in fancy I steal A kiss from the lips of a name I conceal; But should I meet her I've cherished for years, I pass by in silence, in fondness and tears. Yes, I pass her in silence and say not a word, And the noise of my footsteps may scarcely be heard; I scarcely presume to cast on her my eye, And then for a week I do nothing but sigh. If I look on a wild flower I see her face there; There it is in its beauty, all radiant and fair; And should she pass by, I've nothing to say, We are both of us silent and have our own way. I talk to the birds, the wind and the rain; My love to my dear one I never explain; I talk to the flowers which are growing all wild, As if one was herself and the other her child; I utter sweet words in my fanciful way, But if she comes by I've nothing to say; To look for a kiss I would if I dare, But I feel myself lost when near to my fair. 你像一朵花儿 〔德〕亨利希·海涅 你像一朵花儿， 如此甜美、可爱和纯洁； 我凝视着你，一丝哀伤 潜入我心田。 我觉得似乎应该 将手心放在你头上， 原上帝保佑你 永远纯洁、可爱和甜美。 You are like a Flower Heinrich Heine You are like a flower, So sweet and lovely and pure; I look at you, and sadness Steals into my heart. I feel as though I ought To lay my hands on your head, Praying that God may keep you So pure and lovely and sweet. 请允许我成为你的夏季 〔美〕艾米莉·狄更生 请允许我成为你的夏季， 当夏季的光阴已然流逝！ 请允许我成为你的音乐， 当夜鹰与金莺收敛了歌喉！ 请允许我为你绽放，我将穿越墓地， 四处播撒我的花朵！ 请把我采撷吧——银莲花—— 你的花朵——将为你盛开，直至永远！ Summer for Thee, Grant I May Be Emily Dickinson Summer for thee, grant I may be When summer days are flown! Thy music still, when Whippoorwill And Oriole—are done! For thee to bloom, I'll skip the tomb And row my blossoms o'ver! Pray gather me—Anemone— Thy flower—forevermore! 我该怎样来爱你 〔英〕伊丽莎白·巴雷特·巴朗宁 我该怎样来爱你？让我计数这些方式。 我爱你直到我的灵魂所能触及的 深度、广度和高度，在我视线之外， 摸索着，存在的极致和优雅的理想。 我爱你，如同日常所需一样必不可少， 如同阳光与蜡烛。 我自由地爱你，如同人们奔赴正义。 我纯洁地爱你，如同人们放弃表扬。 我爱你，用那将我陷入往昔痛苦的激情， 我爱你，用我童年的忠诚。 我爱你，我原以为那种虔诚 早已随圣徒的消失而逝去。 我爱你，用我的呼吸，我的微笑，我的眼泪，我的整个生命来爱你！ 而且，我会更深地爱你，在我死后，只要上帝允许。 How Do I Love Thou Elizabeth Barrett Browning How do I love thou?Let me count the ways. I love thou to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach, When feeling out of sight For the ends of Being and Ideal Grace. I love thou to the level of every day's Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight. I love thou freely, as man strive for Right; I love thou purely, as they turn from Praise. I love thou with the passion put to use In my old grief, and with my childhood's faith. I love thou with a love I seemed to lose With my lost saints, I love thee with the breath, Smiles, tears, of all my life—and, if God choose, I shall but love thou better after death. The Nymph's Reply to the Shepherd Walter Raleigh If all the world and love were young, And truth in every shepherd's tongue, These pretty pleasures might me move To live with thee and be thy love. Time drives the flocks from field to fold, When rivers rage and rocks grow cold; And Philomel becometh dumb; The rest complains of cares to come. The flowers do fade, and wanton fields To wayward winter reckoning yields: A honey tongue, a heart of gall, Is fancy's spring, but sorrow's fall. Thy gowns, thy shoes, thy beds of roses, Thy cap, thy kirtle, and thy posies Soon break, soon wither, soon forgotten, In folly ripe, in reason rotten. Thy belt of straw and ivy buds, Thy coral claps and amber studs All these in me no means can move To come to thee and be thy love. But could youth last, and love still breed, Had joys no date, nor age no need, Then these delights my mind might move To live with thee and be thy love. 我喜欢你沉静 〔智利〕巴勃罗·聂鲁达 我喜欢你沉静，仿佛你并不存在， 你从远方聆听，而我的声音却无法触及你。 仿佛你的眼神已经飞离， 仿佛一个吻缄闭了你的双唇。 犹如万物充斥了我的灵魂， 你从万物中升起，来把我的灵魂填补。 你好似我的灵魂，一只梦的蝴蝶， 又好似忧郁这个词语。 我喜欢你沉静，仿佛你已远离。 听起来你似在悲叹，一只如鸽子哀鸣的蝴蝶。 你从远方聆听，而我的声音却无法触及你。 让我在你的沉静中默然无声。 让我用你的沉默与你交谈， 你的沉默明耀如灯，简洁如环。 你好似夜晚，伴着它的静寂与繁星。 你的沉默是月亮的沉默，遥远而明亮。 我喜欢你沉静，仿佛你并不存在， 遥远而伤感，仿佛你已死去。 那时，一句话或一个微笑便已足够。 我将会幸福，因那种虚幻而幸福。 I Like for You to Be Still Pablo Neruda I like for you to be still: it is as though you were absent, And you hear me from far away and my voice does not touch you. It seems as though your eyes had flown away And it seems that a kiss had sealed your mouth. As all things are filled with my soul You emerge from the things, filled with my soul. You are like my soul, a butterfly of dream, And you are like the word Melancholy. I like for you to be still, and you seem far away. It sounds as though you were lamenting, a butterfly cooing like a dove. And you hear me from far away, and my voice does not reach you: Let me come to be still in your silence. And let me talk to you with your silence That is bright as a lamp, simple as a ring. You are like the night, with its stillness and constellations. Your silence is that of a star, as remote and candid. I like for you to be still: it is as though you were absent, Distant and full of sorrow as though you had died. One word then, one smile, is enough. And I am happy, happy that it's not true. 如果你能在秋天到来 〔美〕艾米莉·狄更生 如果你能在秋天到来， 我会把夏季拂掉， 半含轻蔑，半含微笑， 像管家妇把苍蝇赶跑。 如果一年后能看到你， 我将把月份绕成团， 分别放在不同的抽屉， 直到那些时间来到。 如果只是耽搁几个世纪， 我会用我的手指来数计， 把手指逐一弯曲，直到 全部落在亡者的国度里。 如果确定我们将相聚在， 你我生命的终结之时， 我愿意把生命像果皮一样， 远远地抛弃。 但是现在还不能确知， 你我何时才能相聚， 这像毒蜂一样把我刺痛， 而它并未亮出它的毒刺。 If You Were Coming in the Fall Emily Dickinson If you were coming in the fall, I'd brush the summer by With half a smile and half a spurn, As housewives do a fly. If I could see you in a year, I'd wind the months in balls, And put them each in separate drawers, Until their time befalls. If only centuries delayed, I'd count them on my hand, Subtracting till my fingers dropped Into Van Diemen's land. If certain when this life was out, That yours and mine should be, I'd toss it yonder like a rind, And taste eternity. But now all ignorant of the length Of time's uncertain wing, It goads me like the goblin bee, That will not state its sting. 生日 〔英〕克里斯蒂娜·乔治娜 我的心像一只歌唱的鸟儿， 居住在溪流的陡坡上面； 我的心像一棵苹果树， 累累的果实把枝条压弯； 我的心像一只色彩斑斓的贝壳， 漂流在平静的海洋； 我的心比这一切都快乐， 因为我的爱来到我的身旁。 为我造一座丝绒铺就的高台， 挂上毛皮和紫色的饰品； 雕刻出鸽子和石榴树的图案， 还有长着一百只眼睛的孔雀； 用金色和银色的葡萄来装点， 再饰以叶子和银色的鸢尾花； 因为我的新生已经来临， 我的爱来到我的身旁。 A Birthday Christina Georgina Rossetti My heart is like a singing bird Whose nest is in a watered shoot; My heart is like an apple tree Whose boughs are bent with thickest fruit; My heart is like a rainbow shell That paddles in a halcyon sea; My heart is gladder than all these Because my love is come to me. Raise me a dais of silk and down; Hang it with vair and purple dyes; Carve it in doves and pomegranates And peacocks with a hundred eyes; Work it in gold and silver grapes, In leaves and silver fleur-de-lys; Because the birthday of my life Is come, my love is come to me. 回声 〔爱尔兰〕托马斯·摩尔 美妙的音乐在这夜色中 回荡， 琵琶和号角将她唤醒， 从那草地和湖上 远远传来回应的光辉！ 然而，无论何时， 在星月辉映下，爱情 总会拥有更甜美纯真的回音； 号角、琵琶和温柔的吉他 将这些歌儿反复吟唱。 这便是叹息——年轻挚爱间 独有的叹息， 只有当这叹息被另一个人听到—— 被那唯一的爱人 再次呼出，送回。

倘若遇见她， 我会沉默着悄悄走过， 连脚步也会轻盈无声。 我的双眼向她远远一瞥， 带着爱恋与泪水。 我只是吐露心声， 向那漫山遍野的野花。 而后对世间万物， 我都会温柔以待。 这本《只愿你被这世界温柔相待》汇集了世界著名诗人脍炙人口的抒情诗歌，汉英对照，配以精美彩色插图，赏心悦目，真的值得反复阅读。

离别的创痛笼罩了整个世界， 无边的天宇变得姿态万千。 正是这离愁，夜夜默望着星辰， 并在七月雨夜的萧萧叶片间化做抒情诗。 正是这弥漫的离恨， 深化为爱和欲，成为人间的苦乐。 正是它通过我诗人的心灵， 融化成曲，喷薄而出。 ——泰戈尔

爱，是头顶的王冠，也是订在心里的十字架。它有时候画饼，有时候画云。

假如时光已逝， 鸟儿不再歌唱， 风儿也吹倦了， 那就用黑暗的厚幕把我盖上， 如同黄昏时节你用睡眠的衾被裹住大地， 又轻轻合上睡莲的花瓣。